How can a book on going down change someone's life? How can having great oral sex be as important as having great intercourse? The truth is that oral sex can actually be the key to unlocking sexual confidence. excitement. and intimacy. With the increasing prevalence of oral sex in the media and news (thanks. politicians and the MTV generation!). more people are looking to take their oral game to the next level. Unfortunately. shame. fear. and discomfort can stand in the way of a truly outstanding oral sex life. That's where author and sex therapist Jaiya comes in. Blow Each Other Away is the ultimate guide for couples to overcome the obstacles that stand in the way of incredible oral sex. from an author on the front lines of sex therapy and sexual wellness.